THE MEANING OF TANTRIC SEX

The Mantra
The Yantra
About the Rituals
The Tantra Says
The One-Hour Rule

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

THE MALE ALONE  RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

The First Night of  the Tantra
The Second Night of  the Tantra
The Third Night of  the Tantra
The Fourth Night of  the Tantra
The Fifth Night of  the Tantra
The Sixth Night of  the Tantra
The Seven Night of  the Tantra
A Continuation

 

                            

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

ERECTION

Erection is usually attained by the Male during the course of sexual foreplay and anticipation.
            But occasions do occur when erection is difficult.
            The Tantra attributes these occasions to fatigue, stress, and nervousness.  Modern psychologists tend to agree with what the Tantric learned long ago: that a relaxed attitude toward difficulty in maintaining erection is one of the keys to resolving the problem.
            First, the Tantra says, if the Male has just engaged in sexual relations and achieved orgasm; he should not rush to attain another erection.  The approach should  be  slow and leisurely, allowing time for the  regeneration  of energy.
            If the  Male is  unable to achieve erection at the  beginning of  sexual  activity, the  same slow, leisurely attitude should be assumed.  The Male's partner will no doubt be as aware of the problem as the Male is, and her attitude should likewise be a leisurely  one.
            Whatever the cause of the problem, the goal is to achieve erection, and Tantric texts  recommend the following:
            The Male should lie on the bed  nude in the Awareness Position. He should  relax and concentrate not on achieving erection but on the imagery of Awareness.  He should say three Awareness mantras.
            His partner should sit on the side of the bed, quietly, without touching him.  She should be on his left side facing his feet, her buttocks alongside his waist.
            The Male  should slowly slide his hands down his abdomen to the base of his penis.  His right  forefinger and thumb   should encircle the penis at the base.  His left  hand should cup his testicles.
            Now he should concentrate his imagery, eyes closed, on the muscular contraction exercises. He should envision his penis with all its muscles and the "empty tubes" inside the penis itself.
            He now squeezes together the finger and thumb encircling the base of the penis and slowly begins to pull upward, away from the base, his fingers maintaining pressure a pulling-sliding action toward the end of the penis. At the same time he should  contract the muscles tightly and envision their contraction in his imagery, which also includes his "seeing" the tubes filling.
            His action the contraction, the sliding of the encircling fingers, the imagery should all be coordinated simultaneously: the time he holds the muscular contraction should be the length of time it takes for the encircling fingers to slide the length of the penile shaft.
            When the encircling fingers  reach the glans, the muscular contraction should  be relaxed  and the penis should be released. The Male should  then relax for  a moment.
            Now the same action should be repeated again: encircling, pressure, pulling-sliding  of fingers from base to tip, coordinated with the muscular contraction.
            Now the act it repeated  a third time, then the Male returns his hands to the folded position on his abdomen.
            He maintains his position, eyes closed.
            Now the  Female looks down at the Male's genitals. Her right hand now moves to the base of the penis; forefinger and thumb encircling the base. Her left hand cups and gently massages the testicles slowly, only the testicles.
            Her forefinger and thumb squeeze around the base of the penis.
            When the Male feels her squeezing  pressure, he initiates a strong  muscular contraction.
             When she feels the male's muscular contraction, the Female slides pulls her encircling fingers along the shaft of the penis, to the glans. Because  she is squeezing with pressure, there is a sensation of her "pulling"  the penis; but, as the Male did, she  should squeeze with  only enough pressure to allow the  encircling fingers to slide slowly up the shaft.
            When she feels the Male's contraction relax, she releases the penis. She is never to  slide the fingers back down the penis to the base.  She should  let it "fall"  to its natural position.
            Again  the Female encircles the base of the penis; the Male does his contraction when ready, the  Female slide pulling the penis along the shaft  toward the glans, the Female relaxing her grip on the penis the moment she feels the contraction relax.
            The action is then repeated the third time.
            Now the Male straightens out his legs on the bed and opens his eyes.  He and the Female relax while three Awareness Mantras are silently repeated.
            Now the Male  turns over on his stomach. The Female does not move, but as the result of the Male turning  over, she is  now on his right side.
            The Male now raises his hips and slides his knees under him, raising his shoulders and resting his  weight on his elbows and knees,  in an "on all fours"  position. Once he has assumed this position, he should spread his knees as far apart as is comfortable, fold  his arms and allow his head to rest on his arms.
            The Female should be able to reach her left hand around the Male's right hip and, from the rear, "cup" his testicles in her left hand.
           Her right hand now goes, palm up, under the Male's stomach; the palm sliding  along his abdomen toward the penis; her hand now turning so that once again she may  grasp the base of the penis in the encircling grip of her forefinger and thumb.
            The Male now concentrates on the muscular contraction Yantra imagery and contracts  the muscles.
            As soon as the Female is aware of the muscular contraction, she should begin the pulling-sliding movement  from the base of the penis toward the glans.  Because of the Male's  position, the  movement of her  hand will be a "milking down'  motion.
            In Tantric texts, this is literally called "milking the  penis  to erection."
            Her downward, pulling-sliding action should  cease the moment she feels the Male relax his contractions.  Again, she must not slide her fingers back along the penis from tip to base.
            Physiologically, erection is attained by the usually empty "tubes" within the penis  filling with blood, which cause the penis to grow in size and harden to an erection.
            This "milking down," couple with the muscular contractions, creates a "drawing force," along with "gravity," to help the filling process necessary for erection.
            The Male should go through three muscular contractions, the Female milking down the penis each time, then releasing it.
            After the third contraction, the Male should ceases his contraction exercises and remain in the "all fours" position, concentrating on the sensations created in his body by the Female's actions.
            After the third  contraction is relaxed,  the  Female should continue the milking action. Even when the  penis begins to grow and  harden, should  continue the milking action from the base to the tip of the penis, never sliding the fingers back along the shaft from tip to base.
            At the same time, the Female should use her left hand to continue massaging the testicles, moving her hand occasionally from testicles to perineum to rectal muscles, slowly and gently (never fast or frantically)  addition anal stimulation.
            When the Male begins to respond to the milking down exercise, he may raise his head and "stand on his knees' on the bed.
            When he does this, the Female releases both her hands from his genitals.  She then changes from a seated  position, to a position lying on her back on the bed; her feet toward  the head of the bead; her  head below  the Male's genitals.
            The Male now leans forward again, to rest  on his elbows. The Female's vagina is now just  below his face, adding stimulation for him. He is also now in a position to healing touch the female's genitals, embrace her hips, open the vaginal labia and kiss the clitoris whenever he wishes.
            When the Male leans forward, the Female will find her head is directly  beneath his genitals.
            Raising her left hand, she can stimulate his testicles, perineum, and anal muscles.
            With her right hand, she immediately uses  the index finger and thumb to  reach up and  encircle the base  of the  penis again.  She continues the "milking down" procedure.
            When she reaches the end of a downward "milking"  and release the penis, he raises her head as she moves her hand  back to the base of the penis.  When her fingers encircle the penis base,  she allows the penis to slide into her mouth as far as possible she try fellatio. She closes her lips around  the  penis,  then she  creates a strong   suction on the  penis.  She  holds the suction and at the same time begins to milk downward the penis  with her  fingers allowing  her hands to push her  mouth  off the  penis while holding  the suction.
            This procedure  should be repeated over and over.
            If you "kiss" your  forearm with suction, you will find the skin has  turned crimson due to the  drawing  of blood  toward the area by the  kissing suction. The same will happen in the penis. The milking downward creating a flow of blood toward  the penis, the oral suction drawing the flow into the "empty  tubes," and causing erection.
            The sensations for the Male is far from clinical.  The milking down action is extremely stimulating, especially when coupled with the fondling of testicles, perineum, and anal area.
            The sucking downward on the penis is an exquisite's sensation.
            And there can be little doubt that erection will occur.
            The Male  can use  his  muscular contractions, whenever he wishes, to add to the process of erection.  He will also have the Female's genitals before him. And, if he so desires, he can bend his head "down" and look "up the female torso" to watch the erotic milking sucking process.
            The whole exercises is so stimulating to the Male that many prefer it as a part of their lovemaking, particularly the "second time around."
            Of course, once the erection is achieved, the Male and Female may wish to continue in this position of mutual fellatio cunnilingus; or the Male may turn over on his back, the Female atop him, now in a position to continue fellating the Male, and to move her vagina into the position she prefers as the Male orally stimulates her.
            They may, as they wish, make this a totality of lovemaking, or alter their positions to have sexual relations in any manner they wish.
            It should be noted that, in using this exercise for attaining erection or lovemaking, many Males enjoy adding aspects of the Anal Stimulation Ritual. This, of course, is purely a personal choice, to the mutually desired upon by the partners.
            There is little doubt that this Ritual will server the purpose for which it was evolved: the attaining of erection.

 

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

Erection
New Partners
The Tantra and Age
Female multiple Orgasm
The Tantric Vagina
Prolonged Orgasm
Oral Sex: Fellatio
Vaginal Orgasm
Anal Stimulation
Menstruation
Tantric Psi
Tantric Yoga
Contraception
The Setting for sex
Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
Chakrapuja: The Tantric "Orgy"
Studying the Tantra
Conclusion