THE MEANING OF TANTRIC SEX

The Mantra
The Yantra
About the Rituals
The Tantra Says
The One-Hour Rule

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

THE MALE ALONE  RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

The First Night of  the Tantra
The Second Night of  the Tantra
The Third Night of  the Tantra
The Fourth Night of  the Tantra
The Fifth Night of  the Tantra
The Sixth Night of  the Tantra
The Seven Night of  the Tantra
A Continuation

 

                            

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

FEMALE MULTIPLE ORGASM

The Tantric texts point out that the Male strives, in sexual relations, toward the point of a single orgasm and ejaculation. The Female may likewise strive toward only one point of orgasmic satisfaction, or she may experience more than one orgasm.
            The Tantric texts go further and divide the Female into three classifications called Vegas determined by the achievement of orgasm:

  1. Chanda-Vega: The Female who achieves multiple orgasm easily, or as a matter of course, within her sexual relations.
  2. Madhyama-Vega: The Female who, either by preference or proclivity, strives for only one orgasm during a given sexual encounter.
  3. Manda-Vega: The Female who rarely achieves even a single orgasm.

            For the sake of clarity in interpreting the Tantra in modern sexual terms , we shall refer to these   as Types One, Two, and Three, and discuss each in turn, along with Tantric comment and suggestions.
            Type One: The use of the Tantric Awareness exercises should serve to increase the pleasure of the repeated orgasms. By controlling orgasm at its onset during sexual relations, then relaxing the control, the intensity of the orgasms will be increased. The Tantra recommends that this type of woman should practice the Special Ritual dealing with the vaginal orgasms, as well as development of the Prolonged Orgasm, and the Tantric Vagina.
            Type Two: The Tantra states that this type may, by preference, not wish to experience multiple orgasm. If not, then she should at least utilize the Control of her orgasm several times during each session of lovemaking approaching orgasm, then backing away (Prolonged Orgasm) and thus intensify her single orgasm into one of greater ecstasy, power, and energy.
            The Tantra suggests that this type practice the Prolonged Orgasm Ritual to achieve this goal.
            But, says the Tantra, this type should not dismiss the possibility of attempting multiple orgasm. In solitary Control Ritual she should bring herself repeatedly to the threshold of orgasm, then attain control. Once this, is easily done, she should practice the Awareness Rituals and imagery, either alone, or with a partner, to increase her stimulation. Then, with a partner, in a Ritual similar to the Seventh Night of the Couples' Rituals, she should communicate with her partner the desire to achieve multiple orgasm. The Male masturbates her to the point of orgasm, and then stops while she gains control; then the Male masturbates her until she achieves orgasm. Both partners should maintain Control as they continue fondling and foreplay. Then the Male should stimulate all areas of her body orally, culminating in cunnilingus to the point of orgasm, and then stopping until control is attained. Then the Male should repeat the oral stimulation of her body. He should continue cunnilingus until a second orgasm is achieved; after which, slowly, the Male should begin Awareness stimulation of her body again, manual and oral, leading to sexual relations and her third orgasm.
            Once this multiple orgasm exercise is agreed upon, the Male must maintain absolute control until the Female has achieved her third orgasm in succession. The Female, once committed to trying this exercise, should allow herself to be stimulated repeatedly, even though in the past she has only had one orgasm.
            Once the exercise is completed and the Female has experienced three orgasms in one session of lovemaking, she may likely wish to try for four. At any rate, she should try the exercise and achieve the triple orgasms on at least three occasions in one week before deciding whether or not she wants to make repeated orgasms a part of her Tantric lovemaking. .
            She may, even after successfully achieving multiple orgasms, decide that she prefers a single orgasm.
            Type Three: Even two thousand years ago the Tantra refused to acknowledge the existence of what some people call a "frigid" person. They believed, as do modem psychologists, that there are only inhibitions which need to be removed.
            The first two Female Alone Awareness Rituals are designed to bring about a better understanding of your own body and its sexuality and sensuality. These exercises are of the greatest importance to this type of woman.
            Further, she should concentrate on the yantra imagery of awareness with great dedication.
            And, as she does her daily solitary exercises, the Tantra strongly suggests that she add one further step: Alone, once each day (regardless of her other sexual activity), she should go through all the Awareness exercises and proceed to masturbate herself to orgasm.
            In the conditioning process of Tantra, orgasm begets orgasm. The more orgasms one experiences, the more easily they are achieved.
            If in solitary practice she is unable to achieve orgasm through masturbation, she must overcome her self-consciousness and explain this, as a simple fact, to her partner.
            Despite the inability to achieve orgasm, this woman should enter into the Couples' Rituals with her partner.
            Each night after finishing the prescribed ritual and after the one hour has passed, they should proceed to the bedroom and, once again the Female should allow the Male to watch as she performs the Awareness Ritual and the Control Ritual, in which she masturbates herself. But this time, she should not fight for controls She should allow her masturbation to carry her b orgasm.
            With the male watching, her inhibitions will be removed, and that may help her reach orgasm.
            If it does not, the Tantra says the Male should all tempt "whatever he can envision" to help her react orgasm. Some of the Tantric texts tell of the use of the dildo; others, the use of a soft feather to tickle an tease the clitoris and perineum and anus. In more modem context, there is nothing wrong with the Male or the Female herself using a vibrator to help by achieve the Initial orgasm.
            Once one orgasm is achieved (and if enough variations are tried, it will be achieved), then it is just matter of substituting her own masturbation to orgasm in place of the original system, using the Awareness Mantra and envisioning the Yantra of whatever imagery she fantasized for the first orgasm.
            From her own successful masturbation, the steps of Tantra are logical for reaching successful orgasm through being masturbated by her partner, then through cunnilingus.
            At that point, she may proceed through the exercises described to achieve multiple orgasms.
            Each Woman in the world is different. Time and the use of Tantric Awareness, Control and Channeling are the keys to successful achievement of multiple orgasms, as well as all the delights of Tantra.

 

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

Erection
New Partners
The Tantra and Age
Female multiple Orgasm
The Tantric Vagina
Prolonged Orgasm
Oral Sex: Fellatio
Vaginal Orgasm
Anal Stimulation
Menstruation
Tantric Psi
Tantric Yoga
Contraception
The Setting for sex
Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
Chakrapuja: The Tantric "Orgy"
Studying the Tantra
Conclusion