THE MEANING OF TANTRIC SEX

The Mantra
The Yantra
About the Rituals
The Tantra Says
The One-Hour Rule

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

THE MALE ALONE  RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

The First Night of  the Tantra
The Second Night of  the Tantra
The Third Night of  the Tantra
The Fourth Night of  the Tantra
The Fifth Night of  the Tantra
The Sixth Night of  the Tantra
The Seven Night of  the Tantra
A Continuation

 

                            

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

CONTROL OF PLEASURE AND POWER

The Tantric Master spoke to her Initiates in these words:
            “You have reached the plateau of understanding the pleasures your body affords you through the senses. And you have intermixed and focused these pleasures through the yantra and mantra. But your pleasure is only now beginning. To reach new heights of anal stimulation, you must first learn to control the senses of pleasure. Therein lie sexual feelings and energy and power beyond all you have ever dreamed before.”
            This is the single most important ritual in Tantra. It is the key to all that lies ahead.

The Control Mantra:

The sound: Pahhh, Dahhh. O-mahmmm.
            It should be memorized by repeating it, when specified in the ritual.

The Control Ritual:

            Lie on the bed, with the knees spread and the soles of the feet pressing against each other, and go through your regular Focusing Ritual, continuing into the Intensifying Focus Ritual.
            At the end of these rituals, after saying the Awareness Mantra, return your hands to the vagina as before. Use the thumbs to open the labia and the index fingers to press on the clitoris.
            Say the Awareness Mantra as you gently massage the clitoris with your right index fingers while you trace the vagina and urethral opening with the index finger of the left hand.
            Keep the Awareness Mantra in mind, and envision yourself masturbating as you begin to masturbate. Does whatever feel best to you?. But be sure to maintain the basic position and the yantra imagery of yourself masturbating yourself, or of being masturbated by another. Naturally other sexual imagery will arise. Fantasies will play in your mind. This is desirable, as long as the Awareness Mantra and Yantra are also present and an important part of your pleasure.
            As soon as you feel on the verge of orgasm, you should immediately begin saying the Control Mantra. Remove your hands from your vagina, and fold them across your abdomen. You will be highly aroused but you must refrain from further masturbation, and continue to repeat (loudly if it helps) the Control Mantra.
            As soon as you start saying the Control Mantra, immediately change your yantra imagery. Concentrate and conjure in your mind a giant void of blackness on which the words of the Control Mantra pahhh, dahhh, o-mahmmm are written. Try to banish all other thought and images from your mind. This yantric concentration is as important as removing your hands and ceasing masturbating. This, with the sound of the mantra itself, is your key to control.
            As you fight for this Control, you will find you are still sexually stimulated but your arousal is under your Control.
            Lie on the bed until you feel you have attained the complete Control created by your yantra and mantra. Then you should rise and do whatever you wish: have a glass of wine, or watch television, or read, or go out, or prepare to go to sleep. But you must not masturbate or engage in sexual relations for at least one hour.
            While going about your normal routine after this ritual, your sexual drive will be very strong. Whenever you feel a need to go back and masturbate, or have sexual relations in any form, repeat the Control Mantra and use the Control Yantra imagery to maintain your control.
            If after one hour has passed, you engage in any form of sex, you will find that, having completed the Control Ritual, your sexual energy is increased. You will reach a higher level of sexual stimulation and greater, more intense satisfaction. Enjoy the increase in your sexual pleasure; right now you don’t need to be concerned with Tantric Control.
            The first time you try this exercise will be the most difficult. Each succeeding time, you will find Control comes a little more easily. After a while, you will be able to draw closer and closer to the actual point of orgasm and still be able to pull back with Tantric Control. The stronger your Control becomes, the better. It is not unusual, once complete Control is established, to continue masturbating while the mantra and yantra imagery of control are used. You will then be able to sustain yourself on the verge of orgasm indefinitely, while controlling it completely. This of course comes with time and regular practice of the Awareness and Control Rituals.
            Initiates often ask whether this Control Ritual should be performed nightly, as an extension of the Focusing and Intensifying Focus Rituals. The answer is yes. Just as the Awareness Rituals are part of establishing a daily pattern, so this all important Control Ritual must be part of the conditioning process. To be able to heighten Awareness, pleasure, and Control, the patterns must be established and practiced regularly.
            Another question is often asked about the Control Exercise and menstruation. Tantra texts consider menstruation merely another normal function of a healthy body. The Awareness and Control Rituals should be practiced nightly, even during menstruation. Using a tampon makes this easier, but even without it, the Tantric texts insist that the rituals be carried out daily.
            Now you are beginning to see that these rituals proceed in a logical sequence designed to gradually bring heightened sexual pleasure, while enabling you to have Control over it.
            This is the most important single ritual of the Tantra. It may appear the most difficult to master, but if you follow the instructions carefully and practice with determination, mindful of the objectives to be gained, you will soon master it.
            Now we move on to a logical extension of this Control Ritual: the Channeling of Sexual Power.

 

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

Erection
New Partners
The Tantra and Age
Female multiple Orgasm
The Tantric Vagina
Prolonged Orgasm
Oral Sex: Fellatio
Vaginal Orgasm
Anal Stimulation
Menstruation
Tantric Psi
Tantric Yoga
Contraception
The Setting for sex
Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
Chakrapuja: The Tantric “Orgy”
Studying the Tantra
Conclusion