THE MEANING OF TANTRIC SEX

The Mantra
The Yantra
About the Rituals
The Tantra Says
The One-Hour Rule

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

THE MALE ALONE  RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

The First Night of  the Tantra
The Second Night of  the Tantra
The Third Night of  the Tantra
The Fourth Night of  the Tantra
The Fifth Night of  the Tantra
The Sixth Night of  the Tantra
The Seven Night of  the Tantra
A Continuation

 

                            

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

INTENSIFYING FOCUS

The initiate approached the Tantric Master and asked of her:
            "Why must I seek pleasure in solitude? Is not the greater pleasure to be found in the arms of another? Is not the exchange of pleasure preferable to that found in solitude?"
            And the Tantric Master replied:
            "All pleasure is perceived within your being. You are capable of knowing all pleasure there is by becoming aware of your own centers of sensuality. Through stimulation, and self-control, you may reach all the plateaus of pleasure you may conceive in the image of your yantra.
            "Once you know the centers of your pleasure, you will be better able to share pleasure with another. This is the whole of the Tantra: that you must perceive what you are through knowing yourself and your pleasures; for only then can you give the pleasure you seek and accept the pleasure given to you."
            This ritual is an extension of the Focusing Ritual, which should be practiced for several days and "mastered" before adding these refinements.
            Practice the Focusing Ritual and after you press against the sides of the clitoris, relax your index fingers and allow them to fall away from the clitoris. Then relax your thumbs and allow the labia to close. Keep your hands relaxed and resting on the vagina. Say the mantra twice, then, envisioning imagery of your action, slide, the two index fingers downward, until they touch the perineum, that small space between the very bottom of the vaginal cleft and the anus. With the tips of the index fingers press against the perineum, while saying the mantra twice. Then return your hands to relax on your vagina. Then repeat the clitoral portion of the ritual, with thumbs opening the labia and index fingers pressing on the clitoris, while you repeat two mantras.
            Now your hands should again rest on the vagina while you reinforce the yantra imagery and repeat the mantra twice.
            Then again slide the index fingers downward, past the base of the vaginal opening, across the perineum, and heal touch the rectum. Pressing on the rectal muscle, repeat two mantras, then bring your hands back to rest relaxed atop your vagina.
            Now repeat the clitoral pressure exercise once more, with the thumbs opening the labia and the index fingers pressing on the clitoris while you repeat two mantras.
            Then return the hands to their position on the abdomen.
            Now the total imagery aspect of the ritual should begin with imagery of fingers on lips, then breasts, then vagina-clitoris, then relaxed, then the perineum, then the clitoris again, then the rectum, then again the clitoris. Picture, in your mind, the hands of another touching you, then focus on the sensation of your own hands, touching the body of another.
            Each step of the longer ritual should be taken deliberately and slowly.
            The object is, of course, Awareness not only Awareness of the sensitive parts of the body touched  and held in imagery, but also an Awareness of the direct erotic links in your body.
            This ritual is highly arousing, but it should go without saying that the One-Hour Rule must be observed. You are now beginning to learn to control your sexual energy.

 

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

Erection
New Partners
The Tantra and Age
Female multiple Orgasm
The Tantric Vagina
Prolonged Orgasm
Oral Sex: Fellatio
Vaginal Orgasm
Anal Stimulation
Menstruation
Tantric Psi
Tantric Yoga
Contraception
The Setting for sex
Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
Chakrapuja: The Tantric "Orgy"
Studying the Tantra
Conclusion