THE MEANING OF TANTRIC SEX

The Mantra
The Yantra
About the Rituals
The Tantra Says
The One-Hour Rule

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

THE MALE ALONE  RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

The First Night of  the Tantra
The Second Night of  the Tantra
The Third Night of  the Tantra
The Fourth Night of  the Tantra
The Fifth Night of  the Tantra
The Sixth Night of  the Tantra
The Seven Night of  the Tantra
A Continuation

 

                            

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

PROLONGED ORGASM

For the Female's pure sexual enjoyment , this Ritual is considered buy the Tantra to be as important as multiple orgasm and the "joys of the Tantric vagina."  For the male, the prolonged orgasm will bring about  a great  heightening of sexual pleasure, allowing him to engage in sex for as long as he wishes.
            The prolonged orgasm is self-defining.  It literally seeks to have the usually short duration orgasm extend over a period of time.  The texts cite instances of Female orgasm lasting for ten minutes or more a single, continuing orgasm spanning that length of time without   ceasing.  Male Tantric have been known  to reach a point that, from the beginning  of orgasm and ejaculation, to the  completion  of ejaculation and orgasmic sensation, "may last a duration of ten to twenty  minutes."
            The  key to attaining the prolonged orgasm lies with the Control Ritual.
            The Tantra states that the Female and Male should have practiced that Ritual faithfully, as well as have mastered all aspects of Control in the Couple's Ritual, before attempting to master the prolonged orgasm.
            The test of whether or not you have "mastered" the Control Ritual and the Control of the Couples' Rituals is a simple one: Can you stop yourself, while masturbating, on the very verge of orgasm and return to a Controlled condition without having the orgasm?  Can you, with your partner, stop yourself  and gain Control  just prior to orgasm, whether   your partner  is masturbating  you,  performing oral stimulation, or having intercourse?
            If you have been able to allow yourself to approach orgasm then cease the  stimulating activity, and using  the Control Mantra and imagery attain   control  without actually having  the orgasm, then you are ready for this   new Tantric  experience, the prolonged orgasm.
            It is emphasized that you must be able to utilize the Control Mantra and Imagery as your means of Control that you Control by saying the Mantra and by writing the Mantra on the black void of your imagery.  In doing this, all concentrative effort goes into Control and you can stop yourself   at whatever point you wish.
            With this firmly in mind, go through the Control Ritual alone, following all the instructions. As you feel the impending orgasm, switch to Control Mantra and (yantra)imagery, and cease masturbating. The Female should leave her hand lying relaxed atop her vagina; the Male returns his hands to their relaxed position on his abdomen. Using  your Controls attain absolute Control, so that you know and feel the impending orgasm will not occur; then, as soon as the Control is attained securely, relax your Control and begin to masturbate again. You will find yourself in such  a stimulated state that very quickly  you will feel the approach of orgasm again at which moment you cease to masturbate, and  turn on your Control Mantra and Imagery, to attain Control gain. Once Control is again securely maintained, begin again to masturbate. Repeat this process until you have experienced the impending orgasm nine times. Once you have maintained the control nine times, then on the tenth time, give yourself over to the orgasm. It will be intensity unlike any you have   ever before experienced from masturbating.
            You may (if you have a  most cooperative partner) allow him or her to masturbate  you in this exercise, but,  if you do so, he or she must be understanding of your objectives and willing to cooperate by ceasing the stimulation the moment  you signal to stop, so you can gain control.
            For the first nights of the tantra, solitary masturbation is preferable.  Alternately, you may each go into a separate room and practice the Control Ritual, bringing  yourself  to the verge of orgasm nine times, and attaining Control nine times.  Then your partner may join  you and  bring you to orgasm in whatever  way you wish.
            You should do this every night.  Each succeeding night, and each succeeding  time within the Ritual that you masturbate, you should try to bring  yourself  closer and closer to actual orgasm, and  at the same time  make sure, no matter how close you approach orgasm, that you pull back into Control.
            After a while, you will be able to use  the Control Mantra and imagery like a "switch" to turn on and off. As you  masturbate, closer and closer to orgasm,  you will find that, by merely stopping the masturbating  and switching, quickly to the Control Mantra and the  written Yantra imagery in your mind, you can  stop  the orgasm and exercise complete Control.
            Once you exercise this Control, you can return to masturbating more quickly then return to the Control, more quickly switching the feeling of impending orgasm on and off with your mind.
            After  a while, you will find that, when you switch on your Control Mantra and imagery, you will not actually have to stop masturbating, if you slow down the stimulation, but continue to masturbate while at the same time calling on the Control Mantra and imagery. See just  how close you can come to the verge of orgasm. Stop masturbating only when you feel you are literally about to have the orgasm itself. Then concentrate completely on Control.
            Once you feel that you have strengthened your ability to control orgasm by stopping it just as it is beginning, you may move to the final phase of the exercise.
            Repeat the exercise as on previous  nights. Three times come to the verge of orgasm, then attain Control, and then repeat the process.
            On the fourth time, slow  down your stimulating  activities, making  them slower and slower as you near the verge of orgasm.  When you feel the  orgasm is about  to begin, allow the first spasms of the orgasm to begin; then, when the orgasm and the first release  of ejaculation has started, cease  all stimulation and use the Mantra and imagery of Control.  This will require great willpower, and an instant switch on of Control.  But it will work and you will be able to stop the orgasm even after it has begun.
            You will find that then you can turn off Control stimulate again, and the orgasm will resume.  When it does, turn on Control and cease stimulation.  Repeat this process for as long as possible, then give yourself  over to  the  orgasm.
            Once you have mastered this technique, you will  find you can actually turn the orgasm off, then on, by using the Mantra and imagery, even though   you continue the masturbatory stimulation.
            You can cause the orgasm to cease, then start, at will, so long as you continue to masturbate. And the orgasm will not lessen in intensity and "end" until you relax Controls.  For the Male, this will not only prolong the sensation of orgasm, but also control the length of time for complete ejaculation of the semen. 
            Once this is mastered, you can do the same on and off Control procedure to prolong, for as long as you wish, the orgasm when your partner masturbates you. 
            You can then proceed to Control the prolonging of  your orgasm while being orally stimulated, as well as when having intercourse .
            Many Tantric women who perfect this prolonged orgasm prefer it to multiple orgasm.
            Faithfully followed, the instruction of this Ritual can prolong the orgasm "for as long as the Tantric wishes to tolerate the intense joy it sends through her body."
            Unlike the prolonged female orgasm, where there is  no objective way of "proving"  that it works (only the description of it by the  female Tantric who have mastered it), the prolonged male orgasm can be objectively  studied.
            And, under observation by witnessing Tantric, it has been seen that the time from the first spasm of orgasm and first ejaculation by a masturbating  male Tantric, to the final spasm of orgasm and final  release of ejaculate, lasted a duration of twelve minutes; and the penis remained erect and obviously in orgasm for the full  twelve minutes duration. 
            The male Tantric, according to his own statements, required "several months of intense practice" to attain mastery of the prolonged orgasm.
            Many male Tantric seek to achieve this prolonged orgasm of Tantra and consider its attainment one of the great goals of Tantric sex.

 

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

Erection
New Partners
The Tantra and Age
Female multiple Orgasm
The Tantric Vagina
Prolonged Orgasm
Oral Sex: Fellatio
Vaginal Orgasm
Anal Stimulation
Menstruation
Tantric Psi
Tantric Yoga
Contraception
The Setting for sex
Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
Chakrapuja: The Tantric "Orgy"
Studying the Tantra
Conclusion