THE MEANING OF TANTRIC SEX

The Mantra
The Yantra
About the Rituals
The Tantra Says
The One-Hour Rule

THE FEMALE ALONE RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

THE MALE ALONE  RITUALS

The Mantra of Awareness
Awakening
Yantric Awareness
The Yantric Body
Focusing
Physical focus
Intensifying focus
Control of Pleasure and Power
Channeling Power and Energy

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

The First Night of  the Tantra
The Second Night of  the Tantra
The Third Night of  the Tantra
The Fourth Night of  the Tantra
The Fifth Night of  the Tantra
The Sixth Night of  the Tantra
The Seven Night of  the Tantra
A Continuation

 

                            

COUPLES RITUALS:  THE SEVEN NIGHTS OF THE TANTRA

THE SIXTH NIGHT OF THE TANTRA

The Couple stood before the Tantric Master, who spoke to them:
"You have traveled far on the climb upward. You, initiation nears its end. Yet questions remain. Questions which you shall answer yourselves, through giving to each other.
            "As you embark this night, you shall each explore the other in still another way, to gain Tantric knowledge each of the other. You shall not refrain or withdraw. The ritual shall bring new delights. And in its pleasures you shall know greater mastery over self and others.
            "Your body is as the instrument of the master musician. It is to be played in all possible combinations. Only in this way will you explore the passage ways to creative mastery."
            As on previous nights, sit together at the table and slowly sip one glass of wine each while thinking of the Ritual and the Channeling you wish to accomplish.
            When your glass of wine has been drunk, the Male stands, says, "I am ready," and removes his clothes. Then he sits.
            The Female stands, says, "I am ready," and removes her clothes. The ritual should be followed as it has on all previous nights.
            Now walk to the bath and proceed with the Bath Ritual.
            Afterward return to the low table, sit silently for a few minutes, repeating the Awareness Mantra in preparation for the ritual.
            Then move the pillows from the low table and sit facing each other in the Contemplative Position of Tantra.
            Now the rituals using the muscular contractions are followed completely, in every detail, as they have been on previous nights.
            Once this is completed, continue to sit quietly in the Contemplative Position for a few minutes. Then stand, embrace and kiss.
            Walk together to the bedroom.
            The Female lies on her back on the bed in the Awareness position. The Male sits on the edge of the bed, to the Female's right. His buttocks should be about at the female's waist, his legs hanging off the side of the bed; he is facing the head of the bed, looking down on her head and breasts.
            The Female closes her eyes tightly, calls forth the yantra imagery of herself, says the Awareness Mantra three times, and then says, "I am ready." She now lies still and waits.
            With his eyes open, the Male says the Awareness Mantra twice to himself, then lifts his hands and places the index fingers to her lips, tracing the outline of the lips; then he cups her face in the palm of his hand, and trying not to touch any other part of her body, he leans over and touches his lips gently to her lips, slowly running the tip of his tongue along the outline of her lips, then kissing her strongly, while he says the Awareness Mantra three times to himself. Then, exercising Control, he removes his lips from hers and sits, hands on lap.
            The Female is not to respond to the kiss, except to part her lips in reaction to the Male's kiss. She is to concentrate on the feel of his lips and tongue, and is not to make any overt action of response.
            The Male says the Awareness Mantra twice, then he places his hands on the Female's breasts, palms down, then he takes each nipple between index finger and thumb, and rolls the nipple gently. Once this is done, the Male removes his left hand from her right breasts. He keeps his right hand on her left breast and massages it gently as he leans over and takes the nipple into his mouth, gently sucking it while he runs the tip of his tongue around the nipple while saying three mantras. Then he removes his mouth from her breast and sits upright.
            He also removes his right hand from her left breast, and places his left hand on her right breast, massaging it gently and leaning forward to take the right nipple in his mouth, sucking gently and running the tip of his tongue around the nipple saying three mantras. Then he removes his mouth from her breast and sits upright.
            Now quietly the Male swings around to face the foot of the bed and look down on the Female's legs, genitals, and abdomen.
            He lays his hands atop the Female's hands on her abdomen, then slides them downward through the pubic hair, across the mons veneris, allowing them to lie on either side of the vaginal opening.
            He opens the labia with his thumbs and presses on the clitoris while saying the mantra three times.
            Then he slides his hands downward until his fingertips press on the perineum, as he says the mantra three times.
He relaxes his hands atop the vagina.
            He slides his hands downward so that the fingertips move across the perineum and touch the rectal muscles, exerting inward pressure and saying the mantra three times.
            His thumbs open the labia and his fingertips exert Awareness pressure on the clitoris, while he  repeats the mantra three times.
            Then he allows the labia to close, his hands remaining on the vagina.
            He leans forward  and brings  his head to the vaginal area.
            His lips touch and kiss the inside of the thighs, first left, then right, his tongue tracing a path from inside the thigh downward to the side of the vagina.
            Using the thumb and forefinger of his right hand, he parts the labia. His lips touch and, with a slight sucking motion, pulls into his mouth the labia of one side of the vagina; the tongue moving back and forth on the labia as the suction is maintained. Then he releases that labia and repeats the action on the labia on the other side of the vaginal opening.
            Then his tongue traces the outline of the vaginal orifice, all the way round, and then enters the vaginal opening, to move up and down on the upper vaginal walls near the opening. The vagina is, of course, "upside down" to the Male. As he runs his tongue downward, into the vagina, he will feel the indentation of the urethral opening and stimulate it; then he will slide his tongue back upward, toward the clitoris, which he will stimulate slowly with his tongue. Then, his lips encircling the clitoris, he will create a slight suction and draw the clitoris between his lips and begin to stimulate it with his tongue.
            At this point the Female may move her hips and body in response to the Male, in whatever manner she pleases, though she should maintain the basic position, knees apart, feet together.
            The Male should remain totally aware of the Female's responses and, when a response is strong, repeat the stimulation which created that response.
            The Male, May, once the Female is responding strongly, insert his right thumb into her vagina, allowing it to rest within the vagina, without moving the thumb itself, to create additional stimulation. He continues oral stimulation, sucking, probing, kissing, and licking to bring the Female toward orgasm.
            The Male must not touch any other part of the Female's body.
            The Female must keep her hands crossed on her abdomen. She must not reach out for the Male or the healing touch his body.
            When the Female feels orgasm approaching, she removes her hand from her abdomen and grasps the Male's arm or shoulder to signal him.
            When he feels her grasp, the  male responds immediately by removing his mouth and hands  from her vagina and sits upright.  He then stands  and moves  away from the  bed.
            The Female will immediately switch to Control Yantra imagery and the Control Mantra, and the then, upon attaining control, switch to the Channeling Yantra Imagery and Mantra.
            She will return her hands to her abdomen, retain the position and now, through solitary effort, pull for the Control that is so vital.
            The Male must remain silent, watching, and using the Control Mantra and Control Imagery to maintain his Control.
            This is yet another phase of Tantric control, and difficult as it may be, both partners must attain and maintain complete Control. Only through such Control can the total concept of Tantra be learned and put to work for you.
            By now the couple has already learned that the preceding exercises have begun to make a difference in their sexual and emotional relationship, and that the Channeling has begun to make a difference in their lives.
            With each new conquest of Control, the subsequent values of that Control become more and more evident.
            Once she has attained Control, and has utilized the Channeling, the Female may open her eyes and sit up.
            She should then rise from the bed and stand.
            There must be no contact between the Female and Male at this point not a word, nor a touch.
            They should stand apart for a few minutes, continuing to reinforce the Control they have attained.
            The Male may, at this point wish to use the Control Yantra imagery as he lies down on the bed, for he has been highly stimulated by orally stimulating the Female and by her responses, as well as by the anticipation of the ritual.
            He should lie on his back, knees apart, feet pressed together, in the Awareness position. He should pull for Control and the Female should not sit on the bed beside him until he has attained complete, relaxed Control and says, "I am ready."
            When he says this, the Female should sit on the edge of the bed, on the right of the Male, her feet off the bed, careful not to touch him except as directed.
            The Female, eyes open, faces the head of the bed, looking down on the Male's face and chest. His eyes are closed tight.
            The female raises her hands and moves her index fingers and thumbs to the Male's lips, running them along the outline of his lips, while saying three times the Mantra of Awareness.
            Then her hands cup his face and she leans forward, to place her lips gently against his. Slowly she runs the tip of her tongue along his lips, back and forth, while saying three mantras to herself. Then she presses her lips against his and probes his mouth with her tongue while saying three mantras.
            During this kiss, the male should remain passive, concentrating on the imagery of what is being done and the feelings created.
            Then the Female pulls her mouth away from the Male and sits up.
            She says the Awareness Mantra three times.
            Then she places her hands, palms down, on each of the Male's breasts. Slowly she slides her hands to grasp the nipple of each breast between a thumb and index finger and rolls it gently. Then while her right hand remains on his left breast she removes her left hand from his right breast.
            With her right hand, she massages the left breast, then leans over and sucks the nipple into her mouth, running her tongue back and forth over the nipple while saying three mantras to herself.
            Then she removes her mouth and her right hand from his left breast and sits up.
            She now places her left hand on his right breasts, leans forward, and sucks the nipple into her mouth and runs her tongue back and forth over the nipple while saying three mantras.
            Then she removes her lips and left hand from his right breasts.
            She turns quietly on the bed, so that she is facing the foot of the bed, looking down on the Male's abdomen, genitals, and legs.
            She says the Mantra twice.
            She lays the palms of her hands on his abdomen, then slides them down through the pubic hair to the base of the penis, which she encircles with her thumbs and index fingers. She squeezes, while saying three Mantras, then slides her fingers and thumbs, still squeezing the penis, from the base upward away from his body, along the shaft of the penis, to the glans, holding the glans between fingers and thumbs and "squeezing" it so that its size becomes perceptibly smaller; then pulling her hands away from the penis, to rest on either side of the genitals.
            She says two mantras.
            Her fingers trace the underside of the penis down into the scrotum, to the very base, where she applies pressure while saying three mantras.
            The fingers now trace downward again, around the testicles to touch the perineum; the fingertips applying awareness pressure to the perineum while three mantras are said.
            Then the hands are relaxed again and two mantras said.
            She slides her hands downward, across the perineum until the tips press on the muscles at the rectal entrance, she repeats three mantras, then relaxes her hands.
            Now the Female returns her hands to rest on the sides of the genitals.
            She says two mantras.
            Her index fingers and thumbs encircle the base of the penis and squeeze as she leans forward until her head reaches the penis.
            At this point, she removes her left index finger and thumb from the base of the penis and with her left hand she cups and testicles.
            Her right index finger and thumb continue to encircle the base of the penis in a tight grip.
            She now uses her right index finger and thumb to press the erect penis "upward" until the glans touches the Male's abdomen. She then places her lips against the outline of the tube like urethral outline on the underside of the penis, at the base. Covering her teeth with her lips, she presses her lips against the urethral outline and slides her lips slowly along the outline, toward the glans.
            When her lips reach the glans, she lifts her mouth away and using her right hand, holds the penis at an erect, natural angle, perpendicular to the Male's body.
            She takes the glans portion of the penis into her mouth. Her lips are comfortably curved inward over her teeth. She encompasses only the head of the penis in her mouth. She sucks and at the same time runs her tongue around the glans.
            Then slowly she allows the entire penis to slide into her mouth, taking as much of it as she comfortably can. While sucking, she slides her head away from the base, to the glans, then downward again, toward the base.
            Her left hand is massaging the Male's testicles, perineum, and rectal muscles. Her right hand should not leave its "grip" encircling the base of the penis.
            Now her movements will be guided by the Male's response. When he reacts strongly to a given action, the Female should repeat the action and bring him closer and closer to orgasm.
            The Male is to lie passive. He is not to touch the Female in any way. Not is he to allow Control to get away from him. He must, at the first sign of impending orgasm, lift his right hand from his abdomen and grasp the Female's arm or shoulder, to signal her.
            Once the signal is received, the Female should remove her mouth and her hands from the male's penis and testicles. She should sit up, get up from the bed, and stand several feet away, silently.
            The male must give the signal in time to prevent the orgasm. He should have mastered this in previous exercises, and that mastery will now prove its worth as he struggles for control under these very difficult circumstances.
            The male, when he gives the signal, should switch at once to Control Yantra imagery and the Control Mantra. He should use these until he feels that control has been attained and can be maintained. Then he uses the Channeling Yantra Imagery and Mantra to direct the great store of concentrative energy that has been amassed.
            Once he has attained Control and maintained it, then uses that Channeling Yantra and Mantra, he may open his eyes and sit up. Then he should stand, and say nothing.
            The Couple should silently walk from the bedroom to the table and pour a glass of wine. As on previous nights, enter freely into a discussion of the ritual with the understanding that you will respect each other's need fro control. And each of you will use the mantra and yantra of Control as often as necessary to maintain control during the next hour for the One-Hour Rule is in effect.
            The Tantric use of cunnilingus and fellatio serves a dual purpose which should be clear:
            The intimacy of such acts brings about a more total understanding of partner, and the acts themselves provide a basis for further removal of all inhibitions between the partners.
            If fellatio and cunnilingus have been a part of your sexual relationship before, then the intimacy, stimulation, and desire to please are reinforced through the deliberate ritualistic approach provide in this Tantric Ritual.
            If you have not engaged in oral sex before, then an entire new area of intimacy, without inhibition and self-consciousness, is entered.
            To all couples the Tantric approach brings new awareness and increased pleasure. And Control plays a great part in this, as always.
            Through these rituals, you learn the extent not only of your own Control but also of the Control that your partner is capable of maintaining. This sharing in each other's Control capabilities brings about deeper feelings of trust. When your partner says, "I will control," you know that he or she does have the ability to do as promised.
            You should enjoy the repast and discuss whatever you wish, while maintaining Control during the hour.
            Then you may retire, to seek whatever pleasures you will. If oral lovemaking has not been a part of foreplay or satisfaction in your relationship before, it now will be. If it has been a part before, the Tantric approach should heighten its meaning and pleasure.
            And, eventually, there will come sleep. And with each night's sleep, whether there has been lovemaking or not, the Channeling Yantra and Mantra should be, by now, as much a part of the process as closing your eyes; a natural, easy prelude to sleep. And one that will make each day of the Tantra, and of the rest of your life, better than the one before.

 

SPECIAL RITUALS  AND NOTES ON TANTRIC SEX

Erection
New Partners
The Tantra and Age
Female multiple Orgasm
The Tantric Vagina
Prolonged Orgasm
Oral Sex: Fellatio
Vaginal Orgasm
Anal Stimulation
Menstruation
Tantric Psi
Tantric Yoga
Contraception
The Setting for sex
Oral Sex: Cunnilingus
Chakrapuja: The Tantric "Orgy"
Studying the Tantra
Conclusion